Level Up IRL: What Diablo IV Taught Me About Growth Mindset

What if levelling up in life felt more like playing Diablo IV? This thought-provoking post explores how dungeon grinding, side quests, and loot chests reveal powerful truths about personal growth, mindset, and the magic of embracing the grind—both in-game and IRL.

Last weekend, I had some free time. Instead of cleaning the house (a side quest I’ve been conveniently ignoring for weeks), I dusted off my digital sword and fired up Diablo IV. A few hours into building a new seasonal character — neck-deep in dungeon runs, loot chests, and gear experiments, I had a strange moment of clarity. This wasn’t just nostalgia-fueled escapism. It was a masterclass in personal growth. (Also, a flawless excuse to justify my weekend gaming binge.)

Here’s the thing: whether you’re slaying hellspawn or slaying to-do lists, the rhythm is oddly familiar. Progress (real, meaningful progress) doesn’t come from playing it safe. It comes from exploring uncharted territory, embracing uncertainty, and grinding through challenges. RPGs don’t just feed our fantasies; they mirror our journey to become better, stronger, and more resilient.

The best lessons on mindset, effort, and levelling up aren’t in self-help books, they’re hidden in loot chests and side quests.

If Diablo IV had a real-world counterpart, it wouldn’t be another fantasy epic, it would be your personal growth journey. Think of it as an RPG where the main quest is becoming the best version of yourself. And like any good game, the real magic happens when you embrace the mechanics.

Here’s the 3-part RPG Framework that Diablo IV (and honestly, life) runs on:

🗺️ 1. Explore the World: The Non-Linear Map of Growth

In-Game

Every RPG starts the same way: a blank map, an underpowered character, and endless directions to explore. You could follow the main questline, but let’s be real, some of the best moments happen when you wander off course. Maybe you discover a hidden dungeon. Maybe you meet an NPC who gives you a side quest that leads to unexpected treasure (or trauma).

Whether you’re building a shadow-dagger assassin or a poison-laced ghost dancer, it’s your journey. No two players take the same path, and that’s what makes it beautiful.

In Life

Real-life growth? It’s the same. There’s no linear roadmap to success. You might start in marketing and end up in product. Or study finance and discover you love coaching. Every “detour” is data. Every “failure” is feedback.

It’s easy to feel behind when you see others sprinting ahead on their own paths. But maybe their route isn’t meant for you. Maybe your greatest unlocks come from choosing the side quest, not the main story.

Takeaway: Don’t get pigeonholed. Stay curious. Chase what sparks interest even if it seems unrelated. Growth doesn’t move in a straight line. It branches. Like a skill tree.

🪙 2. Open the Chests: Risk, Reward, and the Gacha of Life

In-Game

We all know the Loot game. You defeat a mini-boss, open a glowing chest, and boom — a legendary item drops. Other times, it’s a disappointing blue-tier axe you’ll scrap in seconds. Welcome to gacha mechanics: where probability and preparation dance a delicate waltz.

In Diablo, the bigger the challenge, the better the loot.

Higher difficulty = higher risk = higher potential payoff.

But there’s a place for those low-level side missions too, they build momentum and bank XP fast.

In Life

Every risk you take — applying for a stretch role, launching that weird idea, asking a mentor out for coffee, is a figurative chest. You don’t always know what’s inside, but you have to open it anyway. Sometimes you get gold. Other times? Just another learning curve.

But here’s the kicker: not everything has to be “epic tier.” Small wins stack. And sometimes, going after the “easy” quests early can build your confidence (and skillset) faster than aiming straight for the final boss.

Takeaway: Balance effort and impact. Go after some big wins, but don’t underestimate the power of stacking smaller, consistent victories. That’s how you build momentum and resilience.

⚔️ 3. Do the Grind: XP Only Comes from Doing the Work

In-Game

Ah, yes, the grind. That repetitive, sometimes mind-numbing stage where you’re clearing dungeons, slaying monsters, and hoarding gold. It’s not sexy. It’s not shareable. But it’s the backbone of any RPG.

No grind = no level-ups. Period.

In Life

The real-world equivalent? Waking up early to write before work. Repeating that pitch until it clicks. Reading the boring technical docs. Getting rejected. Repeating. Refining.

Everyone loves the idea of instant success. But here’s the truth: mastery is monotonous. It’s reps. It’s a habit. It’s turning “ugh, again?” into “yep, still here.”

Takeaway: You can’t skip the grind but you can make it efficient. Build systems. Automate the mundane. Track your XP. The work compounds, even when it doesn’t feel like it.

Final Thoughts: Equip the Mindset, Embrace the Grind

So the next time you hit a wall, whether it’s at work, in the gym, or during that frustrating third attempt at learning Python, pause and ask yourself: What would my RPG character do?

Explore a new area?

Take on a quirky side quest?

Maybe re-spec your build and start fresh?

Here’s the truth: life isn’t all that different from Diablo IV or any other MMORPG you’ve ever sunk hours into. It’s messy. It’s unpredictable. It rarely goes according to plan. But with the right mindset? It’s also deeply rewarding.

You don’t need cheat codes. You need curiosity. You need courage to face the boss battles, and the humility to grind when the XP is low and the rewards are slow. Growth isn’t something you chase, it’s something you play.

So treat it like gameplay:

🎮 Stay curious.

🧭 Take risks.

⚒️ Embrace the grind.

🎒 And for the love of Tyrael (IYKYK), check your inventory, you’re probably more equipped than you think.

Game on, hero. IRL. 💥

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“If It Ain’t Fun, Don’t Do It”: How Joy, Not Hustle, Drives Sustainable Success in Work and Life

Discover why fun is the ultimate fuel for motivation, creativity, and career growth. If it ain’t fun, don’t do it—and here’s why that matters.

About five years back, I realised I needed to be more active. I was feeling sluggish, mentally foggy, and I was dragging my body through life instead of actually living in it. Like many of us caught in the hustle loop, I reached for the usual suspects — running, walking, even those 25-minute high-intensity home workouts with names like “T25” that promise to transform you if you survive the sweat. Spoiler: I didn’t.

None of it stuck. Not because I lacked discipline, but because none of it felt fun.

Then, one day, I stumbled into a boxing gym. Gloves on. Music thumping. The coach yelling motivational threats that somehow felt oddly empowering. And for the first time, something clicked.

Since then, I’ve been boxing consistently, up to four times a week, for over five years. And here’s the kicker, it’s never felt like a chore. It feels like play.

That one shift, from doing something I felt I should do to something I actually wanted to do. changed everything. Not just for my fitness, but for how I think about work, creativity, and life itself.

Because when joy becomes your compass, momentum follows. Whether it’s marketing campaigns, career pivots, or Monday morning meetings, the things that energise you are the things that move you.

Welcome to the philosophy of “If it ain’t fun, don’t do it.”

1. Fun Is a Force Multiplier

Think of the last time you tried to learn a new board game or picked up something like snowboarding. Remember that steep, awkward learning curve? The one where you’re fumbling with rules or falling on your backside every 30 seconds? And yet, you stuck with it. Why? Because somewhere between the chaos and the challenge, it was fun.

Before you knew it, hours had flown by. You weren’t just playing the game, you were in the zone. That’s the state we should all be chasing — in life, work, and everything in between.

When you’re looking for motivation, don’t just chase discipline, chase delight. We’ve all been sold the hustle gospel: grind harder, push through, suffer now, succeed later. But here’s the truth, the most sustainable motivation doesn’t come from guilt, fear, or FOMO. It comes from fun.

When something is fun:

You return to it not because you have to, but because you want to.
You get better at it because effort feels effortless when you’re enjoying the ride.
You invest more time, energy, attention, and do so willingly.

Even hard work becomes something you look forward to, because it’s anchored in joy. The task may be tough, but the experience is energising. And that’s the ultimate productivity hack no one talks about.

2. In Growth Marketing, Fun = Curiosity

Growth marketing is often described as scientific. Data-driven. Methodical. All true but also a bit… dry. Let’s be honest: if your workday feels like assembling IKEA furniture with one missing screw and instructions in Swedish, something’s gone wrong.

Instead, imagine it’s like playing Zelda. You explore. You test things. You get knocked down by a Bokoblin (or a busted campaign), then you respawn smarter. You collect insights. You find hidden mechanics. You play the game.

The best growth marketers treat challenges like puzzles, not problems. Every funnel drop-off is a clue. Every failed A/B test is just another iteration closer to gold. They gamify experimentation. They play with data like kids with LEGOs.

It’s not about chasing perfection, it’s about chasing the thrill of insight.

So if you’re bored, burnt out, or just slogging through the motions, maybe the problem isn’t what you’re doing, maybe it’s how you’re looking at it. What if the campaign was a level? The audience segments were boss fights? The budget? Your power-up bar.

Growth happens when curiosity leads the way. And curiosity, my friend, is fun in disguise.

3. If It’s Not Fun, It Won’t Be Great

Let’s bring in the big guns. Steve Jobs once said in his 2005 Stanford Commencement address:

“The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle.”

This isn’t just philosophy, it’s performance strategy.

Because here’s the thing: fun isn’t frivolous. It’s a compass. It tells you when you’re in the right arena.

People who love what they do don’t just clock in and out. They show up fully.

They solve better problems because they’re emotionally invested.

They inspire others because enthusiasm is contagious.

Whether you’re launching a new brand, leading a team, or just trying to make sense of your career path, fun is the fastest way to find your edge. Because joy fuels effort. Effort fuels mastery. And mastery? That’s where greatness begins.

Final Thoughts: Fun Is Fuel, Go Find It

“If it ain’t fun, don’t do it.” — Jack Canfield

It’s a deceptively simple quote, but one that packs a punch (much like a clean jab in the boxing ring). And maybe, just maybe, it’s the clarity we need in a world that often glorifies burnout, busyness, and doing things just because we “should.”

Here’s the truth: life is short, and work is long. If we’re lucky, we’ll spend decades building, creating, striving. That’s a long time to be stuck in something that drains you. Real meaning is found somewhere between joy and challenge.

But don’t get me wrong: fun doesn’t mean easy. It means energising. It means doing the hard thing because it matters. Because it lights you up. Because it’s worth showing up for, even on the days you’re tired.

So ask yourself and ask it honestly:

“If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?”

If the answer is “No” for too many days in a row, then maybe it’s time to change something. A shift in direction. A spark of curiosity. A return to joy.

Work can be hard. Life can be messy. But fun is fuel. Go find it. Then build a life (and a career) that runs on it.

Are You Seeing Miracles or Just Missed Metrics?

Discover how a mindset shift inspired by Einstein’s quote can transform your approach to setbacks, growth marketing, and performance metrics. Learn to see challenges as opportunities—and even miracles.

Truth is… It’s easy to become jaded when you’re neck-deep in dashboards, campaign reports, and feedback loops that sound more like criticism than coaching, it’s natural to focus on what’s not working. The ad that flopped, or the conversion that didn’t happen.

In performance marketing (and in life) it’s easy to get trapped in the “nothing’s working” loop.

But what if the problem isn’t the problem? What if the problem is how we see the problem?

Sometimes the difference between burnout and breakthrough is a mindset shift: choosing to view even setbacks as learning opportunities… or dare I say it, miracles in disguise. 🧠💡

“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.”

— Albert Einstein (aka the original growth hacker)

💼 From Chasing Perfection to Celebrating Progress

Here’s the thing: perfection is a trapdoor.

What if we stopped treating every failed campaign like a failure… and started treating it like data? Like a signpost? Like a slightly annoying, but incredibly honest friend who just told us what doesn’t convert?

Split-test mindset, meet life:

There are two ways to live:

As if your test failed.

As if you just discovered what doesn’t work, and now you’re smarter for it.

🧭 What If This Is the Miracle?

What if the underperforming campaign is pointing you to your breakthrough strategy?

What if the client pushback is training you to communicate with more clarity and confidence?

What if the delay, the detour, the U-turn… is the reason you avoid something worse?

We miss a lot of good things by only looking for perfect ones. The growth mindset isn’t just about being open to feedback. It’s about being open to the idea that what’s happening right now, even if it’s frustrating, is part of something valuable. Something miraculous.

Even if it doesn’t come with a 6x ROAS.

🧠 Your Turn

Pause for a second. Take a breath.

Now ask yourself:

🔹 What’s one recent “setback” that might actually be a miracle in disguise?

🔹 Where could you reframe failure as feedback or as a next step forward?

Because yes, you can live like nothing is a miracle. But that sounds… exhausting and sad.

I’d rather live like everything is (even the messy bits).

How about you? 👇

Drop your thoughts. I’d love to hear your story.

Fall in Love With the Work, The Wins Will Come

Discover how a simple mindset shift—from chasing outcomes to embracing the process—transformed my approach to performance marketing, creativity, and long-term growth. A thought-provoking take on the quote: “Fall in love with the process and the results will follow.”

💡 Quote of the Week: “Fall in love with the process and the results will follow” — Bradley Whitford

I’d be honest. I used to chase end results like a man possessed — more income, more leads, more conversions, more possessions. It felt like progress. And in some ways, it was. But looking back, I realised I was constantly chasing the next high, hitting one target only to move the goalpost. It became a loop of short-term wins that left little room for joy, creativity, or meaningful growth.

Then I came across this quote:

“Fall in love with the process and the results will follow.” — Bradley Whitford

That hit differently.

What changed the game for me wasn’t a smarter hack or a better framework, it was a mindset shift. When I stopped obsessing over outcomes and started genuinely enjoying the work itself, something clicked. I found more clarity, more peace of mind, and ironically, better long-term outcomes.

Turns out, when you fall in love with the craft, the scoreboard starts taking care of itself.

🛝 Process is the Playground of Growth

Real, sustainable growth doesn’t come from one big breakthrough. It comes from showing up, testing, learning, and tweaking — day in, day out.

I’ve seen this play out in my work with A/B testing gaming video creatives. Sometimes the “ugly” variation outperforms the polished one. Sometimes what you think will convert ends up flopping. But every test is a data point, and every insight sharpens the next move.

Same with building growth loops — they rarely take off on the first try. But when you treat the process as a playground for discovery rather than a pressure cooker for instant wins, that’s when compounding magic kicks in.

Small daily inputs, repeated over time, create massive momentum.

🎨 Obsession with Outcomes Can Kill CreativityWhen you’re glued to dashboards and only chasing KPIs, it’s easy to default to “what’s safe.” You end up recycling what worked instead of exploring what might.

But when you genuinely love your product or your craft, something shifts. You start taking smart risks. You lean into curiosity. You play more, experiment more, and that’s when performance marketing actually gets exciting and effective.

Some of my most successful campaigns didn’t come from chasing the perfect CTR. They came from being fully immersed in the storytelling, the customer journey, and the creative process.

Loving the process made the work better and the results followed.

🏃🏻 Habits > Hype

Anyone can launch a flashy campaign. Not everyone can show up every day when things get hard or boring.

The best growth I’ve ever seen, both in business and in life, comes from unsexy consistency: tracking what matters, reviewing performance, asking better questions, making small tweaks, and doing it all over again.

Fall in love with those tiny actions, and you’ll build the resilience and systems that scale.

In the long run, quiet consistency beats viral hype every time.

💭 Final Thoughts

The best founders and marketers I know don’t just chase results — they live the process. They obsess over customer problems, they get excited about small wins, and they treat every test like a new opportunity to learn and grow.

In doing so, they don’t just build great businesses—they build unfair advantages.

Because when you love what you do, you don’t burn out chasing metrics. You build momentum that lasts.

📣 If you’re a fellow marketer or founder stuck in outcome-obsession mode, let’s connect.

I’m building a community of growth lovers who care more about the craft than just the clicks.

Let’s grow together — the right way.

Never Forget Your Mother-Tongue

Growing up in Singapore, we get the privilege of mastering both the English language and our mother-tongue, which in my case is Mandarin Chinese. By a stroke of luck, it turned out that these are probably the two most important languages in this age.

In most of my professional years, English was all I needed. Even when I needed to speak to colleagues in Mandarin-speaking countries, I managed to get by. Even then, Mandarin is not used for professional terms but just for pleasantries and water-cooler talk.

Recently, as the world changes, I realised that it is getting increasingly harder to avoid using Mandarin in the professional setting. To be honest, I am not used to this and started to think back on how I have neglected my mother-tongue.

‘Higher Chinese’ Education is Less Chinese Education

Through the Singapore education, I managed to get into an SAP (Special Assistance Plan) High school. As part of the SAP programme, it is mandatory to take Higher-Chinese as a subject. At the high school level, there are two levels of the Chinese language – Chinese and Higher Chinese. The Higher Chinese subject is considered the more difficult of the two.

So taking Higher Chinese, one would naturally assume that I should be well-versed in mandarin. While I will say that I do have a certain level of proficiency in Mandarin, I must be honest in that the way I learnt the language was for the examination.

And there is a simple reason. Because I wanted the option to not take Chinese as a language in Junior College. The deal is if we do well enough in ‘Higher Chinese’ in High school, we do not need the subject in Junior College. The incentive of no longer needing to learn Mandarin spurred me on to work hard and do well enough in the O-levels to get the exemption.

Not Needing Mandarin

So without having to take Chinese in Junior College, there is no real need for me to brush up on my Mandarin since I was seventeen. My experience with the Chinese language was relegated to only listening and speaking.

Over time, I am pretty sure that my proficiency in Mandarin has definitely stagnated or even declined. While I may often joke about my wife not being able to speak Mandarin properly, I think I am not pretty far behind. I am still very much able to follow day to day conversations but throw me into a business setting where I need to present in Mandarin using business terms and I will be a mess.

Never Too Late

Hopefully, it is never too late. I do have a decent foundation in Mandarin. I believe with enough hard work and determination, I am pretty sure I will be able to overcome my current language deficiency.

What I need is a plan. A plan on how I can regain my proficiency in Mandarin and be able to use it confidently for work. Here is what I am thinking:

Expansion of Vocabulary – I need to start building a list of business terms that I will need to know in Mandarin.
Experience in Reading Reports – I am going to force myself to read the Mandarin-version of proposals and documents from my Chinese business associates.
Listening to News in Mandarin – To get myself used to listen to business conversations in Mandarin, I will need to start listening to the news in Mandarin.

It is never too late.

Will China Win?

I first went to China about 20 years ago. Memories of how China looked like during school trips are now fuzzy at best. Two things stuck in my mind. I remember the prices in China to be so cheap that as a fifteen-year-old I felt like I could eat like a king. The other thing was that China was the land of the counterfeits. Thinking back now, I remember purchasing several cheap DVDs which I am sure were fake and illegal now.

Now if I can return to China, I am sure I will witness a very different China. Heading to Shanghai or Beijing now, you will find a modern bustling city with a melting pot of East and West cultures. I reckon everyone should visit at least once just to see the ‘Paris of the East’.

China Won Already?

This week I managed to catch Kishore Mahbubani’s interview on New Economic Thinking where he spoke about the geopolitical showdown between the United States and China. In the interview, he frequently made references to his book, “Has China Won” as he described how the showdown is inevitable and predicted that it is only a matter of time before China overtakes.

In the interview, Kishore mentioned several facts and opinions but the ones which stuck out for me were:

In the last 30 years, the average income of the bottom 50% in the United States has been in decline. In comparison, the average income of China’s bottom 50% has been steadily rising.
China’s aim is not to spread her communist ideologies with the world but to focus on reclaiming its reputation and standing in the world.
It is no longer a competition of Democracy versus Communist, but Plutocracy versus Meritocracy.

How Did China Get Here?

So the question is really how did China get here? The conventional train of thought is that with only a single party, there will be no check and balance on the ruling party, and thus not capable of self-correction.

However, as presented so articulately by Eric Li in this Ted Talk presentation, the opposite is true. China is able to self-correct because it is adaptable and meritocratic.

Eric described that in the last 60 years, the policies and reforms by China were so wide because they aim to correct the previous dysfunctions. Examples cited were the Cultural Revolution in the 70s versus Deng Xiao Ping’s Market Reform in the 80s.

He went on to describe how difficult it is to get into the 25-man Politburo, China’s highest ruling body. And only 5 out of them came from privileged backgrounds. As such, the Chinese Communist Party may be the only party but it is a meritocratic one.

Therefore, it is no wonder that with a meritocratic government where the very best minds are introducing self-correcting policies, China is able to surge forward to become the second-highest country in economical power.

What Does It Mean for Us?

Does this mean China is going to win and the United States will fall like the Soviet Union? I do not think this is true, and certainly hope it does not lead to this.

I do not believe it has to be a zero-sum game in that for China to win, the United States has to lose. I think while it is probably inevitable that China will overtake the United States in economical output, there is still much to catch up on in other areas such as technology and military.

Instead, I would rather hope that the United States adapt to this changing political climate and build a collaborative partnership instead of a provocative one. With the United States in the West and China in the East in strong cooperation, we can imagine a more peaceful world where nations may spend less on their military and more on healthcare, education, climate change, scientific enquiry and etc.

I know I am being naive in this utopia dream. Probably too simplistic in my thinking that this might be resolved through better understanding, more empathy and open communication.

But then again. Why not?

Fearless like a Child

Reconnecting with childhood friends has certainly been one of the silver linings during this lockdown period. During the lockdown period, my secondary school friends revived our Whatsapp group chat.

We knew each other since we were thirteen and there were more than twenty years to catch up on. We caught up on what we were doing now in our lives, and it was interesting to find out where we all ended up. While most of us continue to live in Singapore, some are in the United States, United Kingdom and one is even moving to the UN Space Agency in Vienna!

Tribute for Teachers Day

We reminisced about our times in school. Talked about the teachers we drove crazy and the teachers we still admired today. One of the stories which came up was about us performing a Stomp-like performance for Teachers’ Day which apparently was written by me!

To be honest, my memories of this performance has long been forgotten. Even now the memories are murky at best. From the group chat, I managed to piece together my grand first act.

It was Teachers’ Day, and our class decided to surprise the school by volunteering to perform a piece. With that in mind and inspired by Stomp, I ambitiously wrote a piece and then spent a good time teaching my classmates.

With probably too little time and talent, we ultimately still went on stage in front of the entire school to perform. Despite bombing the performance, we are all to this day proud that we managed to accomplish it.

What Happened to that Fearless Ambition?

What made me think to myself was where was that fearless ambitious self I was back at fifteen?

The ambition to write a song without real professional training. The fearlessness of performing on stage without sufficient practice but knowing that we have given our all.

I am a little disappointed with myself now. My fifteen-year-old self would have laughed at me now. Afraid to take big risks and fear of failure.

But I guess it’s not too late considering I have at least half of my life left to make amends. I need to and will find my young self again. We all need to because it is the dreams of our younger selves that got us to where we are and sometimes we need that reminder to take us forward.

To paraphrase one of my inspirations:

Stay Ambitious, Stay Fearless.

Mission Lockdown: Come Back Stronger

I just got my new haircut yesterday and I am all ready to move into the new phase – the end of Circuit Breaker. Yet somehow this does not really feel like the end. At least for me, the difference in my daily living will be minimal as my household will continue to work from home. Probably the only difference for me is now I can go visit my mother-in-law. But for many of my friends who are now parents, they will probably be much happier as schools will start to open up and take away the stress of managing both children and work at home.

What got me thinking though was how the lockdown situation in Singapore compared to the rest of the world?

mission lockdown come back stronger than before

Singapore Only at 28th?!

So taking the easy way out, I took to Wikipedia and fortunately enough there is a list compiling the start and end dates of lockdown periods per country (updated as of 31st May 2020). And with some quick data manipulation, I managed to come up with a chart of the top 50 countries based on lockdown period lengths.

I am pretty surprised that Singapore is coming in at only 28th and far behind some of our neighbours such as Malaysia, Philippines and Thailand. Not sure why, but it certainly does make me appreciate the situation better and just be glad we are not like Peru which has been on lockdown since 16th March with an end date of 30th June – 106 days!

But maybe looking at the number of days in lockdown is not exactly the right way about thinking about this Covid19 pandemic. The question really should be…

What is considered a victory over the Covid19 virus?

In the simplest and most logical sense, that would refer to an eradication of the virus. Considering that smallpox is the only disease to be eradicated in our history, I believe we need a more generous way of defining a win over the Covid19 virus.

In my opinion, a victory should not only be defined by the medical perspective but more from a social perspective. Are we able to live our lives the way we want without being affected by the virus?

Using this as the benchmark, I must say we are quite far away from winning the virus. Our lives have obviously been affected and to be honest, we do not have a clear idea to when everything can return to normal. As long as we have the fear of getting the virus on the back of our heads, there is no doubt that the virus is winning.

Does this mean we should now live in despair and misery?

Our Mission is to Come Back Stronger

As rightly stated in this video by Grey’s Director Commentary, being in lockdown is akin to us boarding a spaceship and leaving planet Earth. While the frontline people in healthcare and essential services continue to battle the Covid19 virus, we are left alone in our homes or ‘spaceships’.

However, this does not mean we sit idly by as we wait for our lives to return to normalcy. When we can return to society, we will most likely face one which is broken and will require us to heal it. To do so, we need to ensure that we do not need fixing and can come back stronger than before.

As such, our mission is to come out of this lockdown better than before.

Suggested in the video, we need to maintain both our physical and our mental healths. To achieve this, I believe there are three things we should pay attention to.

First is the physical since it is the easier or the more straight forward out of the two. Being confined to our homes will limit our usual physical activity. As such, make sure we put in the time and effort to exercise and keep our bodies fit.
Divide your physical space in your homes so that you have a clear area for each major activity – Exercise, Sleep, Entertainment and Work. Previously, you’d always had clear designated places such as the gym, your office, the coffee shops/bars and your house. Maintaining the same segregation will provide the mental support you will need.
Last but not least, its to find the right balance between these four areas. The key thing here is not the number of hours spent in each area but the quality. Make sure that when you are in each area, only do what is designated and soon you would be able to find out the right balance for yourself.

With at least more than a month away, now is the time to fulfil our destiny.

Thanks to Covid19

In a parallel universe where the Covid19 virus did not happen, I should have been partying in Seoul this weekend with my boys. But instead, we were confined to a virtual party where we could only substitute our blown holiday with our alcohol stash.

In Singapore, we are close to two months into our Circuit Breaker (our version of the Lockdown). The ‘house arrest’ experience has certainly curtailed my life, but at the same time, it has given me much in return.

‘Death and Rebirth’

No. Death here does not refer to one related to the virus. Thank God!

What happened was that near the start of the Circuit Breaker, the company which I was working in just announced that it has filed for liquidation, and I just lost my job.

To be honest, this was a new experience for me and while I pray that I would not have to go through it again, in a weird way I am glad it happened. The best way I can describe it would be to liken it to a break-up, and it turned out to be a life-teaching experience.

First came the shock and denial. As rightly pointed out in this article by Variety, I tried to point the finger of blame on everyone else but myself. Sure, we can take jabs at the unsustainable business model which requires continuous capital injections, the unwillingness of senior management to commit to a strategy, or the lack of support from the investors. However, at the end of the day, I came to realise that I was part of this company.

That brought me to the second stage which is self-reflection. Regardless, I have to remember that I was still a part of the company and I deserve part of the blame as well. Going along with poorly conceived plans and not giving a bigger voice to my thoughts, I am as guilty as everyone else.

I need to be braver, more enthusiastic and more decisive.

With these thoughts and a little bit of luck, I enter into the recovery stage. Within my notice period, I managed to find another job in an industry that I had been wanting to join for some time.

But this time it is going to be different. I know what I have to do. I need to be braver in my words, more enthusiastic in my actions, and more decisive in my thoughts.

The Golden ‘Variance’

I know, I know. So much hype has been going around on the internet about how staying home is the perfect opportunity to do this and to do that. But for me, what struck home was this article by Scott Galloway.

The golden opportunity really lies in the variance we are experiencing now. To me, it is the time variance that Scott so correctly pointed out. Commute time variance. Working from home now means no commute and time saved.

Question is what are you going to do with your commute time saved?

Are you going to blow it all on sleep or on Netflix? Or you can use the one to three hours saved to spend more time with your family, get that daily workout or put in the extra work you wished you had time for. For me, I have decided to allocate that ‘additional’ two hours I have daily to work and exercise.

I now start my workday earlier and I would take 30 to 45 minutes each morning to plan what I want to achieve today at work. With a combination of a Kanban board, my calendar and the Forest app, I have found that my workdays are now a lot more productive. It feels like I enter every day with a game plan on hand.

As for my exercise, I have always complained that I do not have the time for it. But I guess there is no excuse now. I decided to embark on the T25 journey. As Shaun T rightfully states in the video: It is just 25 minutes a day but I need you to focus!

I will focus. Focus on making sure that I make full use of this golden variance.

The Last Dance

Released timely during the lockdown, The Last Dance is a docuseries showcasing Michael Jordan, the Chicago Bulls, and converging on the last season of their second three-peat.

I grew up watching Jordan and he is probably my first sports hero. Watching this docuseries has certainly sparked renewed admiration for the man, and his winning mentality was certainly a much-needed inspiration during these times.

My favourite quote from him will always be:

“I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed” – Michael Jordan.

Never give up.